In the Waiting…

White walls and a ticking clock. The paper beneath me crinkles as I reposition myself for what seems like the hundredth time as I sit on the patient table. I can hear the heels clicking and shoes squeaking in the hallway outside of the patient room we reside in.

I glance at my watch. Only 10 minutes has passed since I looked last time, yet it feels like an eternity. This can be so hard sometimes. So many anticipated results leading down an immeasurable number of possible paths. And someone out there already knows which one it will be. Breathe, Nicole. Breathe…

“Psssst,” I hear jokingly whispered across the room to me. I turn my head. There he is. That smile. He had to have been watching me spiral back into my thoughts again. I am so often going back and forth from moments of peace and trust to being fidgety to having the word “anxious” stamped across my forehead. 

The latest shuffling of feet outside has grown loud and then stopped suddenly. And this person has stopped right outside our door. The handle twists and the door opens. My heart is racing again. I am moments away from finding out if I have cancer or not…

Nicole Waiting Between scans at MD Anderson

The act of waiting is defined as the action of staying where one is or delaying action until a particular time or until something else happens. And it has the potential of bringing so many emotions to the surface. Anxiety, nerves, stress, eagerness, agitation, desire, hopefulness or hopelessness, impatience, enthusiasm, or discomfort to name a few. I am pretty sure I felt each one of those emotions while sitting there waiting for my scan results.

Waiting isn’t just challenging in those moments though, but in every day life. And we do everything we can to minimize it or avoid it. The ease and convenience offered through fast-food restaurants, Amazon, and Google Search make us happy to have access to quick service. But even then, sometimes there’s a line, an item isn’t “prime eligible,” or there isn’t any internet service. And we are reminded yet once again that waiting is part of our every day lives.

Nicole sitting showing her IV in her arm waiting for her CT Scan

I think that’s why the Bible comments so much about patience, contentment, and how to cope with anxiety.  Whether you’re stuck in traffic when you’re trying to get somewhere, pregnant and looking forward to meeting your baby, nearing the vacation you’ve been planning for a year, or, like I was, waiting for results for scans, “waiting” is inescapable.  And how we handle waiting effects our peace, attitude, relationships, and can even affect our physical health.

I truly want to experience the full and abundant life that we have been given (John 10:10), so I took time to search for truths to commit to memory when I find myself anxious or struggling with waiting:


  • God loves me (John 3:16)
  • The Fruit of the Spirit reminds me of how I am called to live life, including times of waiting  (Galatians 5:22-23)
  • God has a plan for my life, for good, no matter what my circumstances are (Romans 8:28)
  • God offers peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7)
  • Each moment I am alive is a gift, and all that I have, so I want to make the most of what I have right now right in front of me (James 1:17)
  • Worrying does not add a single hour to my life (Luke 12:25)
  • There is a time for all seasons (Ecclesiastes 3:1-8)
  • God is preparing me in the waiting (1 Peter 1:13)
  • God’s timing is always perfect, because He, Himself, is perfect (Psalm 18:30)


When my Oncologist walked in, he shared that my scans showed that I am still cancer free! I am so thankful and excited. At the same time, I want to grow from that experience so I don’t wear myself out in the waiting.

Every 3 months I receive scans that will tell me if my cancer has returned or not. Through counseling, that I did as part of my survivorship plan, I learned that God has more for me than to simply live my life in fearful 3-month intervals of waiting; like a ticking time bomb counting down the moments to my next scan. I also learned that I can practice daily what it looks like to live life with trust in God amidst times of waiting for other things unrelated to cancer.

And even though it’s not always easy to be content and at peace while waiting, my hope is that writing this down can serve as a point of reference for you and me to come back to when waiting is just plain hard.

Nicole standing outside with her arms spread wide celebrating cancer free scan results

Maybe you’re struggling with waiting in every day life: waiting in lines, for coworkers to reply to emails, or for Mr. Right to come along. 

Or maybe you find yourself in a season: waiting to heal, for things to turn around, for a new job or opportunity.

Or maybe it’s cyclical: waiting to see your yearly evaluation, for family to arrive for the holidays, or cancer scan results.

Waiting will never go away, but it doesn’t have to effect our quality of life. We are all in this together and have access to peace and contentment right now. Sometimes we just need one another to encourage and remind us of those truths. And I hope that if you find yourself amidst a time of waiting, that you feel known and encouraged, filled with hope, and equipped with reminders of the truth that God has a plan for your life.

Nicole squatting down with a group of flowers in front of her

God bless you and thank you for your prayers for my latest round of scans!

Sparkle on,
Nicole Body

We all struggle with waiting to some extent. Which area of your life can I pray for contentment and purpose for you while you wait?


  1. As always, your words have empowering messages to all who read them, Nicole. Praise God for the wonderful news today, and praise Him for the goodness that comes to everyone through His Son. You are an amazing child of God, and I’m so blessed to know you and Wes!

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    • Thank you so much for always supporting us. Your encouragement means so much and we are SO THANKFUL for you! We are praising God for the news and desiring to continue to grow in our faith and relationships with this beautiful life we have been given! God bless you!!!

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  2. Nicole, Am so glad to hear your latest scan was clear of cancer. I totally relate to this post. I too am living in three-month intervals. Next scan is at the end of February. It’s very difficult to think ahead and plan like there is a future, when we know that the next scan could change or even end our future. Will have to say, though, that during this latest round of waiting to get a scan at MD Anderson, I have not thought much about it and have been thinking of life in normal ways. Then a little inner voice nags at me and says, “That kind of healthy thinking is probably an indication that you DO have cancer this time.” Very negative, huh? I have even thought that I would rather just get a scan once a year so that I could live life more normally the rest of the time. In September it will change to every four months and then later to six months, I think. I keep telling myself that the Lord does not want us to be too attached to this world, and this is a sure-fire way to accomplish that goal. We are each here to do what the Lord has us here to do and that is the simple truth, up to and including going through cancer. And I also tell myself that even living with the anxiety of cancer returning, I am still not going through and have not gone through what a lot of people endure in this world. Not at all. So those are all the things I keep telling myself. And in the meantime, the Lord already knows how this will all turn out; it’s already a done deal from His perspective. He has us in His care. “Let not your heart be troubled; neither let it be afraid.” But, you know what, I am not the only one who waits on pins and needles for the next scan. So does my husband. And my mother. They have anxiety about it too. Thanks for reading my ramblings. It was fun looking at your pictures from inside MD Anderson. I love that place and those people. Much love, Sharon Hitt

    On Thu, Jan 31, 2019 at 8:23 PM Sparkly Survivor wrote:

    > SparklySurvivor posted: “White walls and a ticking clock. The paper > beneath me crinkles as I reposition myself for what seems like the > hundredth time as I sit on the patient table. I can hear the heels clicking > and shoes squeaking in the hallway outside of the patient room we res” >

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    • Sharon I am so thankful that you shared your story and your thoughts. We all have those thoughts that roll around inside our heads but oftentimes we don’t talk about them. You have created such relatability and hope by sharing this. I am praying that you continue to see “life beyond the scan” and find peace that surpasses understanding as you live your life abundantly! You are in my prayers for your February scans and beyond. For you and your family. You are so loved by so many and I am thankful to know you!


  3. Nicole,
    You are such an inspiration to so many! Your message of positivity and love is infectious and is such a welcome gift. Congratulations on your great news of clean scans! You are adorable , and I wish you and Wes tons of love 💕 and happiness always!

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    • Carolanne, thank you so much for your encouragement and congratulations! Wes and I feel so deeply grateful to God and are overjoyed that you are celebrating with us!! God bless you always!!!!


  4. I came across your blog on the Sarcoma FB group and I can’t believe it, but my husband and I met you in the MD Anderson MRI waiting room (he has sarcoma) a couple of weeks ago. Congratulations on your clean scans! It truly gives us hope when we hear positive stories like yours.

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    • Oh my goodness!!!! Yes!! Wow, that is so amazing to be able to connect like this! God is pretty awesome in they way He brings people together! Thank you so very much. How is your husband doing?! Wes and I will be praying for him and you! I hope we get to see y’all again!


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